most of the time we never stop to think about the words that flow out of our mouths. we just keep talking, not really bothering to take into consideration how other people may observe the way we speak, the things that come out of our mouths. we don't realize that what we say could be used against us, costing us everything.
sometimes, we don't realize that what may seem like a little joke to us, could feel like a million daggers to another. i hate it when everyone else just laughs along, without the slightest clue as to how that person is feeling at that very moment. i hate it how no one, NO ONE, bothers to point out the wrong in that 'joke'. but what i hate the most is when people just keep going back to their same old habits. they just keep saying things that they make think aren't harmful, but in reality are slowly killing the targeted person inside.